Overcoming Excuses
When nerves kick in, excuses start piling up. We talk ourselves out of self-love or prioritizing our own care. Life gets hectic – work’s overwhelming, we’re always chauffeuring someone around, or we feel we should focus on time with our partner instead. Then there are the classics: “I need to drop 15 pounds first!” or “I just can’t afford it right now!” I’m writing this to prove that no matter the excuse, you CAN make it happen. Let me show you that whatever’s holding you back, you’re still worthy of loving yourself!
“I don’t have enough time for myself”
It’s worth remembering that if you’re not nurturing your mental well-being, it’s tough to keep up with everyone else’s needs. That sounds logical, but putting it into practice? Way easier said than done! I’ll admit, I’m often terrible at carving out mental health breaks for myself – and that’s exactly why I feel compelled to share this with you. I fall into the same excuse traps as anyone else, and sometimes I need someone to grab me by the shoulders and say, “SLOW DOWN. Take a moment, catch your breath!”
A boudoir session gives you that chance to pause and embrace yourself for a few hours. Imagine how much lighter you’d feel every day if you stopped comparing yourself to others or stressing over what people think of your appearance. You’ll discover the true source of your beauty, and that revelation lifts a massive mental burden.
You deserve time for yourself. Why not spend it having a blast and getting pampered for a change?
“I’m not at my ideal weight / I don’t match the media’s ‘perfect’ size”
Did you know that the ‘ideal’ body type splashed across ads is naturally found in just 5% of American women? That’s right – ONLY 5%. I’ll keep shouting this from the rooftops (and no apologies if you’ve heard it before): Why should your size dictate how much you love yourself? Why let some stranger’s warped vision of a ‘perfect’ body decide how you feel about yours? And why compare yourself to others when every woman’s body is uniquely her own?
I love that you might have health goals or want to feel stronger – that’s awesome! But does that mean you have to despise your body in the meantime? Absolutely not. You deserve to cherish yourself at every stage. Take pride in where you are today so you can celebrate where you’re headed tomorrow. Book a boudoir session to honor your current beauty, then do another after shedding that 15 pounds to toast how far you’ve come!
“A boudoir shoot is an investment, and I don’t have the funds right now”
Absolutely, a boudoir session is an investment – and it’s one in yourself! You’re putting money into your confidence and well-being, too. Plus, we’ve got payment plans to make it work! To secure your spot, there’s a booking retainer, but after that, we can tailor a payment plan for the rest, making it simpler to schedule your session. Got questions about our plans? Drop us an email, and let’s get your shoot set up!
P.S. – Are you a past client interested in writing for our blog? We’d love to showcase your story! Just drop us an email at info@RDMimagery.com, and we’ll share what you have to say!
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